提起双十一，我们总绕不开买买买。

有网友在微博上晒出这样一组“双十一前的你 vs 双十一后的你”对比图，让天堂君也是两眼一亮，看见自己：

双十一来临，全国210万名快递员进入最繁忙黄金周。国家邮政局数字显示，双十一快递员每人每天送240件快递。

今年双十一期间，全国预计会发28亿个快递，其中最多一天将超5亿。

换句话说，平均每天，每8个中国人就有一个在签收快递。

还真是应了那句老话：双十一年年有，年年都剁手！

今年，天猫再次刷新纪录，双十一开场刚刚1分36秒，成交额已突破100亿，比去年快了29秒；1小时3分50秒已破1000亿，没想到昨天夜里很荣幸地参与了一个千亿大项目。

外媒惊叹中国双十一，表示双十一成交额也是中国经济整体状况的一个指标。

不过，还有一些复古派网友表示，如今的双十一已经变味了，失去了传统节日的内涵，希望大家不忘初心，不要因为狂买东西，就忘记了自己是单身。

至于，那些既没脱贫也没脱单的朋友，你是不是终于发现人世间的悲欢并不相通。双十一过后的人生道理，你是该了解一下：

虽然“双十一”被广为熟知为“Singles' Day”，但近日，英国女演员艾玛·沃特森在接受《Vogue》专访时，称其单身状态为“self-partnered”，而非“single”。该新词汇一出口，便在推特上引起众多共鸣，听上去有种“我不是单身，我就是自己最佳伴侣”的谁都不care调调。

我从前不信‘快乐单身贵族’这套理论，过去的想法是‘这纯粹是说的开心’。我花了很长时间才理解，但我现在是非常快乐的单身，我把这种状态称作‘与自己作伴’。

无论单身与否，学会自我陪伴都是一件重要的事情，享受得起一个人的生活也是一种能力。

下面，就让我们一起来看看女神艾玛（《==请点击观看）在这段采访中的精彩语录吧！

Emma Watson, originally of Harry Potter fame, spoke to journalist and transgender activist Paris Lees for British Vogue about the pressures of starring in the franchise, her fears on turning 30, and her activism for the magazine’s December 2019 edition. The edition will feature Emma Watson on its cover.

August 2020 will mark 20 years since Daniel Radcliffe, Emma Watson and Rupert Grint were cast as the core trio of characters in the Harry Potter film series. They went on to star in eight movies, taking them on a journey lasting over a decade, ending with Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows - Part 2 in July 2011.

Speaking to Paris Lees for British Vogue, Watson opened up on her experience since Harry Potter, saying she decided to go to therapy to sort through her thoughts and feelings of guilt about starring as Hermione Granger in the franchise.

“I’ve sat in therapy and felt really guilty about it. I’m like, why me? Somebody else would have enjoyed and wanted this aspect of it more than I did. And I’ve struggled a lot with the guilt around that. I’m like, I should be enjoying this a lot more, I should be more excited and I’m actually really struggling.”

It’s refreshing to see somebody of Watson’s fame and history given the opportunity to be candid about her experience of the pressures of being in a role with such high expectations from the age of eleven. Whilst the world saw her as Hermione Granger for over a decade, Watson said remaining rooted in her own identity helped her eventually “find peace”.

“Part of what’s helped me find peace is there were moments when it got so big where I almost had vertigo and felt it got so big that I felt l disconnected, and part of the peace within myself is remembering my identity.

“I am someone’s daughter. I am my mother’s daughter, I am my father’s daughter, I am a sister. I belong to a family. I come from a place, I have roots. There’s a whole big existence and identity that I have that’s really important and weighted and solid, that has nothing to do with any of that.”

Since Harry Potter, Daniel Radcliffe has starred in projects on stage and screen, from Equus on the West End and Broadway and Rosencrantz and Guildenstern Are Dead at The Old Vic, to 2012 movie The Woman In Black, and lately TV series Miracle Workers, on which he served as executive producer on several episodes.

Rupert Grint appeared in 2017 TV series Sick Note, served as producer and star in ongoing TV series, Snatch, and will star in Servant, which he discussed on a panel at New York Comic Con 2019.

Emma Watson has had arguably the most diverse and impressive career since ending Harry Potter, seeing her go from starring in the 2012 movie adaptation of The Perks of Being a Wallflower, to bringing to life a new imagining of Disney’s Belle in the live-action remake of Beauty and the Beast in 2017. She will also star as Margaret “Meg” March in Greta Gerwig’s adaptation of Little Women this Christmas, calling the character a feminist for her decisiveness.

“Her choice is that she wants to be a full-time mother and wife. To Jo [Saoirse Ronan], being married is really some sort of prison sentence. But Meg says, ‘You know, I love him [John Brooke, who is played by James Norton] and I’m really happy and this is what I want. And just because my dreams are different from yours, it doesn’t mean they’re unimportant.”

Outside of her acting career since Harry Potter, Emma Watson has given her voice and platform to women’s rights, LGBT+ rights, and sustainability campaigns. She serves as UN Women Goodwill Ambassador, advocating the HeForShe campaign to end gender inequality. Watson kicked off the campaign at a special event at the UN Headquarters in 2014 with a rousing, bold speech on being a feminist and ending sexual harassment, closing with a memorable call to action: “Ask yourself–if not me, who? If not now, when?”

She has since served on global summit panels for years, and and earlier this year sat down with Nobel Peace Prize winner Dr. Denis Mukwege in London for a sombre conversation organised by New York Times about gender-based violence, and Mukwege’s work as a human rights activist and doctor working to end the use of rape as a weapon of war.

Watson also contributed to the original TimesUp campaign and #MeToo fund to support victims of sexual harassment after Harvey Weinstein was exposed by several women in the movie industry for subjecting them to sexual harassment and assault. She also set up a hotline for victims of sexual harassment in the workplace.

Discussing the importance of sustainability in fashion with Vogue, and its connections to human rights campaigns, Watson was clear on the need for considerations of environmental impact when it comes to fashion shoots. She worked with Vogue to source ethical looks for her December 2019 issue cover photoshoot:

“We’re often asked not what we are wearing but ‘who,’” Watson said when she announced her role as an official Good On You supporter earlier this year. “It’s as if the ideas behind the clothes–the label, the designer, the collection–have more meaning than the garment itself. There’s a bigger story to be told about the conditions in which our clothes are made, the resources that have been used and the impact they’ve had on communities.”

Telling Lees about the perceived struggles of turning 30, and her newfound happiness in being single (which she calls being self-partnered in an effort to reclaim the happier parts of being single), she said:

“I was like, ‘Why does everyone make such a big fuss about turning 30? This is not a big deal…’” she shares. “Cut to 29, and I’m like, ‘Oh my God, I feel so stressed and anxious. And I realise it’s because there is suddenly this bloody influx of subliminal messaging around. If you have not built a home, if you do not have a husband, if you do not have a baby, and you are turning 30, and you’re not in some incredibly secure, stable place in your career, or you’re still figuring things out… There’s just this incredible amount of anxiety.”

当你不那么期待爱情的时候，你就不会失望了，还是努力熬到一点付尾款吧。

双十一，不管贫穷还是单身，希望你今天都能做回自己，享受self-partnered！